Thrub - THE site to click if you're man enough
Have you ever felt less than a man?
Be honest with YOURSELF.
I'd like to know...
...have you felt like you lost to someone and wanted to get even with them?
...do you know what your mission in life is, and how it ultimately controls your fate?
...have you had doubts about your life and which direction it's taking you?
...have you felt like your life was "on hold" until a big event happened, and when it did, you ended up the same as before with no big change in your life occuring?
...have you thought that you need to grow up and act your age, but didn't feel like it?
...do you have extreme anxiety about traveling to other cities and countries without "set in stone" housing and travel arrangements?
...have you been in a relationship and felt that she was in total control of you?
...have you made a bad decision but instead of taking responsibility you blamed it on other things like your current circumstances, relationships, or finances?
Are these questions TOO close to home?
If you're like 90% of guys out there, then you realize that you're not a man. You're a boy that needs to mature... and fast.
But you don't know where to turn for guidance or where to find your "intitation to become a man".
Are You A Real Man?
Compare Yourself To This Revealing Description
"If" By Richard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!
Who Is To Blame For Your Missing Manhood?
You may have grown up this way: indecisive, and immature in your decision making skills. Just like the incredible poem above, your maturity requires an extensive exercising of your now hidden qualities of masculinity.
Society today has become very feminine in it's methods of raising men, and it's only increased throughout the last few decades. Men feel "guilty" about sexual attraction, and they want to be those "nice guys".
There is nothing wrong with being a "nice guy", but like I say, you must be a gentlemen with an edge to win in life.
